hey...as i drove back to my home,i was thinking of human's acts towards their partners. well,i gotta admit that i'm facing it right now and it's really hurt...
what will you do when your gf/bf met her/his ex-couple at the university's function? i guess u musta be a lil' bit shock,isn't it?
that was what i felt last night when i accidentally met my ex. we were together at the age of 16 to 17 and we were too young at that point of time. knowing that i was accepted for National Service and also knowing that i will further my studies,i decided to break off...awww...kinda sad...starting on that moment,i never met him anymore...i don't even know what he is doing. until in 2008,we,again,accidentally met at KLCC food court. he was working with Louis Vuitton (am i right?) hehehe!
we are still befriend until now...even though he had a new girl and i had mine too. so,last night i was attending PR Dinner at Kelab Royal Selangor,Shah Alam. and...i met him again but this time our situation is different. he had further his study in Public Relations (masscomm)...OMG,i almost cannot believe he is now my junior...
we had a nice time,chatting and talking. i can see he was excited meeting me too.
so,the issue here is my bf got jealous with this,especially i posted it in my FB. huh...*sigh* i don't think he can be too jealousy about this since i am not going to change my mind having my ex as my bf...suck! that's crazy!!! why do i need to do that? i love my bf. well,too bad for me...he couldn't think like that...
so...i was totally mad when he kept blaming me on this and that. unfortunately,i am a hot-tempered person and sometimes when i get mad,i couldn't remember what am i talking about. and i just yelling and keep yelling. this is not a serious matter.
i tell what,to those gf/bf out there,u should trust your partner. trust them if you love them. i know some of individuals will take an advantage of your trusting but,u knew your partner,right? so,you can work with that...easily...
if you keep blaming,they will feel down and sad. they will hate you. they will get angry with you. at that point of time,all the good things you have made will be nothing because the level of angry is much higher that what you think.it is alright to take care of your partner but make sure you did it in the right way without hurting your partner.
don't ever make a negative assumptions to your partners. they don't like it. instead,try to calm down them by saying something that will make her/him feel touched. don't ever repeat the old stories or bring back his/her past. even tough they might be social or bad,but don't mention on that,because you will actually support them to do it again.
believe me...i'd been in that situation for several time...lastly,i would like to say...
love your partner and stop being controller.
love your partner and stop blaming them.
love your partner and treat them nice.
and to him,i love u so much...and i never think of replacing you with other man even my ex...i really want you to know...i love you...always...
