Monday, March 29, 2010

anjing dan islam

A'kum...

Disini ingin saya sampaikan pandangan saya mengenai isu umat Islam yang memelihara anjing. Pada pendapat saya tidak salah jika sebagai seorang yang beragama Islam,kita memegang, membelai mahupun memelihara anjing. Asalkan sentuhan itu disamak kembali bersama satu kali air tanah dan enam kali air mutlak.

Allah SWT juga telah meletakkan hukum yang sedemikian maka perbuatan memegang anjing terbukti tidak salah. Namun begitu, kita cuma tidak digalakkan untuk memelihara anjing bagi tujuan haiwan peliharaan. Namun begitu juga, memelihara anjing bagi tujuan menjaga keselamatan rumah dibenarkan.

Ingin saya berkongsi cerita disini, saya juga pernah membela anjing yang saya namakan 'Puppy'. Anjing ini kakinya tiga kerana cacat. Saya menjumpainya tersangkut di celah-celah batang buluh di kawasan belakang rumah. Dengan perasaan yang amat simpati, saya menolong menariknya keluar dari celahan batang buluh itu. Sejak saat itu, saya terus simpati dan ingin menjaganya sehingga ia dewasa.

Tidak dapat dinafikan disini, saya juga turut bermain dengan anjing peliharaan saya. Bergurau senda pada setiap petang. Kelincahannya membuatkan hati saya gembira walaupun ianya hanya berkaki tiga. Namun, saya masih kenal Islam dan tahu hukum-hakam Islam. Setelah bermain dengan Puppy, saya akan mengambil tanah di belakang rumah dan menyamak diri saya. Bergatung kepada anggota mana yang bersentuhan. Pernah sekali, saya menyamak seluruh badan serta pakaian saya.

Jadi disini, bukanlah menjadi satu kesalahan jika seseorang Islam itu memelihara anjing mahupun bermain atau bergurau senda dengan anjing.

Saya juga berpendapat jika Islam tidak membenarkan kita memegang anjing,maka tiada gunalah hukum 'samak' yang diperkenalkan. Apa pendapat sidang hadirin sekalian?

Beralih kepada mengzalini anjing pula, saya merasakan ianya adalah satu perbuatan yang dikeji dan dibenci oleh Allah SWT. Anjing juga makhluk Allah yang berhak hidup di muka bumi ini juga. Malah, anjing juga berhak mendapat keadilan seperti kita manusia yang lain kerana kita sama-sama menumpang di bumi Allah SWT. Begitu juga dengan khinzir. Sungguhpun, ianya tergolong dalam haiwan yang diharamkan daripada kita memakannya, namun ia tetap kepunyaan Allah.

Tuntasnya disini ialah, setiap apa yang kita lalukan mesti ada jalan penyelesaian yang direstui oleh Allah. Samaklah selepas bersentuhan dengan anjing dan janganlah kita menyeksa golongan haiwan ini kerana sesungguhnya, kita juga akan menerima balasan yang setimpal dengan apa yang kita lakukan pada hari ini.

Amin.

Sunday, March 28, 2010

white horse

Say you're sorry, that face of an angel...
Comes out just when you need it to...
As I paced back and forth all this time...
Cause I honestly believed in you...

Holding on, the days drag on...
Stupid girl, I should have known...
I should have known...

I'm not a princess, this ain't a fairy tale...
I'm not the one you'll sweep off her feet...
Lead her up the stairwell...

This ain't Hollywood, this is a small town...
I was a dreamer before you went and let me down...
Now it's too late for you and your white horse, to come around...

Baby I was naive, got lost in your eyes...
And never really had a chance...
I had so many dreams about you and me...
Happy endings, now I know...

I'm not a princess, this ain't a fairy tale...
I'm not the one you'll sweep off her feet...
Lead her up the stairwell...

This ain't Hollywood, this is a small town...
I was a dreamer before you went and let me down...
Now it's too late for you and your white horse, to come around...

And there you are on your knees...
Begging for forgiveness, begging for me...
Just like I always wanted but I'm so sorry...

Cause I'm not your princess, this ain't a fairytale...
I'm gonna find someone someday who might actually treat me well...
This is a big world, that was a small town...
There in my rear-view mirror disappearing now...

And its too late for you and your white horse...
Now its too late for you and your white horse, to catch me now...

Saturday, March 27, 2010

Lover's Actions

hey...as i drove back to my home,i was thinking of human's acts towards their partners. well,i gotta admit that i'm facing it right now and it's really hurt...
what will you do when your gf/bf met her/his ex-couple at the university's function? i guess u musta be a lil' bit shock,isn't it?

that was what i felt last night when i accidentally met my ex. we were together at the age of 16 to 17 and we were too young at that point of time. knowing that i was accepted for National Service and also knowing that i will further my studies,i decided to break off...awww...kinda sad...starting on that moment,i never met him anymore...i don't even know what he is doing. until in 2008,we,again,accidentally met at KLCC food court. he was working with Louis Vuitton (am i right?) hehehe!

we are still befriend until now...even though he had a new girl and i had mine too. so,last night i was attending PR Dinner at Kelab Royal Selangor,Shah Alam. and...i met him again but this time our situation is different. he had further his study in Public Relations (masscomm)...OMG,i almost cannot believe he is now my junior...
we had a nice time,chatting and talking. i can see he was excited meeting me too.

so,the issue here is my bf got jealous with this,especially i posted it in my FB. huh...*sigh* i don't think he can be too jealousy about this since i am not going to change my mind having my ex as my bf...suck! that's crazy!!! why do i need to do that? i love my bf. well,too bad for me...he couldn't think like that...

so...i was totally mad when he kept blaming me on this and that. unfortunately,i am a hot-tempered person and sometimes when i get mad,i couldn't remember what am i talking about. and i just yelling and keep yelling. this is not a serious matter.

i tell what,to those gf/bf out there,u should trust your partner. trust them if you love them. i know some of individuals will take an advantage of your trusting but,u knew your partner,right? so,you can work with that...easily...

if you keep blaming,they will feel down and sad. they will hate you. they will get angry with you. at that point of time,all the good things you have made will be nothing because the level of angry is much higher that what you think.it is alright to take care of your partner but make sure you did it in the right way without hurting your partner.

don't ever make a negative assumptions to your partners. they don't like it. instead,try to calm down them by saying something that will make her/him feel touched. don't ever repeat the old stories or bring back his/her past. even tough they might be social or bad,but don't mention on that,because you will actually support them to do it again.

believe me...i'd been in that situation for several time...lastly,i would like to say...

love your partner and stop being controller.
love your partner and stop blaming them.
love your partner and treat them nice.

and to him,i love u so much...and i never think of replacing you with other man even my ex...i really want you to know...i love you...always...

new blog! yea!

hey...this is new from me...hehehe...=)