I've been called up to sit and stay in front of my laptop and throw my opinion about Friendship. This story is based on my experiences, of what I have encountered few years back. Well, if we talk about friendship, it is something that are very precious and respects. It fills with love and care. It supposed not to be spoiled and ruined.
I have never had a long-stayed best friend previously. When I was 14 and 15, I had one Chinese girl who used to be my best friend ever. She would help me in my studies and accompanied me when it comes to social, study, sadness or demotivated. I am impressed with her, I could say. She is brilliant and very good in Maths and English essay. However, she had to move out to other school after PMR and that gave me a big impact as I think I was alone.
Not to say I was alone. I still have friends surrounding me. I met a guy who finally end up as my good friend too. He is not that smart but he is very good in handling human being, regardless girl or boy. He stayed befriend with me until we lost contact after STPM. Thank God, we finally met in Facebook! That's a good thing about FB.
During my STPM, I met a girl whom same class with me. She is smart and very motivated. I like her, the way she carry herself and the way she look at things in different segment. She was my guidance during that time. We shared the same thing together. We shared our interest, our stories and emotions as well. After STPM, she managed to get into public university in Terengganu to further in Economics study. Yes, we had lost contact but we finally met again!
So, my journey continued until I entered UiTM Shah Alam. I met varieties of new people and I'm so excited. We were like families to each other. I had so much fun when I was still in university. I learn a lot of new things. But, I am a bit sad of one thing. I always being left out in my group. Sometimes, I felt like they only need me when they are in need. I am not sure whether if this is just a feeling inside or it is real. Well, they are always together, regardless in any situation. They had fun among themselves and they are happy among themselves too. They invited among themselves and even uploaded pictures too.
In another way, I am busy with my work. Yes, I am dedicated to my work, I cannot simply apply leave or MC because I have my responsibility to think about. I am not sure how to convince them as our work field are very different. They are not in the corporate-busy-world, I could say. But, when it happened, I felt something is not right. So, when I looked back and think, I get the rough idea of all. It might be because of my work profile and my tight schedule. However, for me, they supposed understand my situation, not just ignore me. Unfortunately, they are not like that.
When I was Form 5, I met a group of naughty-students who only like to play in class and less attention paid during teaching period. But, they are very ind and nice. They used me to get their notes easy and done but I used them in transportation and cheat. Hehe! They are a good friend, my good and best ever friend. They were there when I need them. They were there for our fun time. They were they when I need help. Even tough we are quite far to each other, but they managed to work thing good. And, until now, we were still be friends. A good friends, indeed. Sometimes, we had dinner together, we made BBQ session, we had lunch together, we even met up and 'lepak' and seeing each other. One of them has get married, the other two are getting engaged this year (2012). The other one is a busy business man just like me. But, we managed to see each other.
True Friends
There are many people
that we meet in our lives
but only a very few
will make a lasting impression
on our minds and hearts
It is these people that we will
think of often
and who will always remain
important to us
as true friends
~ Susan Polis Schutz ~
No comments:
Post a Comment